Ephesians 5:3-6
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This sermon was preached by Rev. Chris Roberts during the morning service on Sunday, November 22, 2009.
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I want to begin with a story this morning. In this story there is a group of refugees, struggling across a desert wasteland. They are hot, tired, dressed in rags. Many are weak and on the verge of death. They have no supplies and all around all they can see is the shimmering heat rising off of dry desert sand. They are doomed, hopeless. Then out of nowhere an oasis appears in their midst. With great cries of rejoicing the people plunge in. The oasis has an endless supply of water and abundant food, clearly enough to last the people for ages. The people enjoy the delights of the oasis for a time but a very peculiar thing starts to happen. One here, two there, a group over there, they all begin to return to the desert wilderness. No destination in mind, no other hope in sight, they return to their wandering. Their thirst quenched, hunger satisfied, they returned to the world of death, destruction, and despair, ignoring the peril all around them.
I wonder how many people in this room today are like those returning to the desert wasteland, returning to brutal slavery, returning to the stench of sin. We claim to be a people forgiven and set free but we live as though nothing has changed. Once we take care of our guilty feelings we return to the wasteland of sin and the world’s ways. We claim Christ but are shocked when actually expected to live like Christians.
Today we look at Ephesians 5:3-6. Up to this point Paul has said a lot about our lives as Christians, including what we should and should not be as followers of Christ. But he has not given us many specifics on things we should avoid. Back in 4:22 we were told to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires. In today’s passage Paul mentions six things Christians are to put off.
The New Testament contains various lists of virtues and vices. In our passage we find the only vice list in Ephesians. This vice list focuses on sins of a sexual nature. Let’s take a moment to look at these six vices.
The first two, sexual immorality and impurity, cover a range of sexual sins, from sins of the body to sins of the mind. God created human beings to enjoy sexual activity within certain parameters: one man and one woman united in marriage. Anything else is sin, whether it is sexual activity that takes place physically or mentally. In Matthew 5:28 we learn from Jesus that even lust is a form of adultery. Sometimes people, especially young people, will ask how far is too far. It is an evasive question, we already know the answer. Any activity of a sexual nature is too far. Paul warns Christians that they should avoid any sexual activity that goes beyond what God intended for human sexuality. Here is a simple formula. If you are not married, do not have sex or engage in sexual activity, period. If you are married, reserve all activity for your spouse.
The third vice, covetousness, could be taken two ways. Covetousness is greed, a desire to have something belonging to another. Here, Paul could mean covetousness in a general sense in which we might desire more money, more possessions, more influence, the power and prestige held by someone else. Certainly that is a vice Christians ought not hold. But given the context and focus on sexual immorality, I think Paul means covetous of a sexual nature, desiring someone that is not yours.
The next three vices all focus on the way we speak. In verse 4 Paul says, Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking. Again, the focus is on sexual things, only this time Paul says we are to have no speech of a degrading sexual nature. This ties into what he says in verse 3 that such things are not to be named among you. There he means that such sins should not be abiding points of casual conversation. Paul wants us to be people with pure lips. In Colossians 4:6 he tells believers to let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. We cannot obey Colossians 4:6 while having mouths full of impure things.
Christians are to have nothing to do with the works of darkness. That includes how we speak. Paul is not delivering an absolute prohibition against mentioning such sins or he could not write about them and I could not preach about them. What he means is your speech should not dwell on these things and certainly should not take them lightly. Humans enjoy making light of sin, whether we are joking about sin or simply lingering on topics about sin. The end result is we become desensitized. We become more open to sin, more accepting of it in the lives of others and, eventually, in our own lives. Paul wants our minds to be pure, so our hearts must be pure.
In Philippians 4:8 we are told, Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. How can we obey that command while thinking and speaking of topics that are degrading or immoral? In Luke 6:45 Jesus tells us, The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks. What does your mouth say about you? What do your words reveal about the condition of your heart?
Whether in our words or in our actions we are so prone to being led astray. We live in a day when much evil is acceptable. Christians are mocked when they draw lines against sin. We are called legalists when we try to uphold what Scripture upholds. Even those claiming the name of Christ will ridicule others who seek to live and call others to live according to the Bible. There are dangers everywhere. Temptations lurk around every corner, snares wait across every step. You will hear people try to convince you that sin is acceptable. Paul says have nothing to do with such things. In verse 6 he warns us, Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience.
Today we live in a Christian culture absolutely consumed by sin. Rates of adultery, divorce, and unmarried pregnancy are as high within the church as without. Even among pastors the rate of immorality resembles the world. Too many Christians believe that in some way their sin is compatible with their faith.
It usually goes something like this: “I know sin is wrong. I know God commands us not to do these things. But my desire is great and I feel I cannot resist. God is a loving, forgiving God and I am already a Christian. If I give in to this temptation, the desire will go away. I will be sinning, but God will forgive me.” We find a myriad of ways to justify our sin. We explain away our immorality, whether it be physical acts of sexual sin or impure thoughts or vulgar talk or celebrating immorality through filthy jokes and filthy images. Paul says Do Not Be Deceived! Those words that seek to lure you to sin are empty, meaningless!
He goes farther than this. His word of warning would shock many if they bothered paying any attention to what he says. There are two warnings given to people who would commit such sins. First, Paul says in verse 5, For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Second, in verse 6, because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Paul is telling us that people who continue in these sins will experience the judgment of God.
In the first warning he says that such people have no inheritance in the Kingdom. The Kingdom of God is the realm of all who submit to the rule of God. It is made up of all who follow Christ Jesus as Lord. There are many who claim the name of Christ but do not submit to him as Lord. Such people may claim the Kingdom but they have no part in it. You must submit to Christ to belong to the kingdom of God. If you stubbornly insist on the sins of the flesh you show your refusal to honor Christ as Lord and you have no inheritance in God’s kingdom. If there is no place for you in the Kingdom, the only other place for you is Hell.
In the second warning, he says that because of these sins the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. We have seen this phrase before; in Ephesians 2:1-3 we read, And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience, among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.
We were all once sons of disobedience but by the grace of God we have been saved out of that and made children of God. But children of God do not live in open rebellion against their Father. We will sin, we will struggle with temptation, we will fall. But we will see our sin and repent of our sin and cling to Christ, crying out for forgiveness and strength in the day of trouble. A true child of God will not embrace the world. Saints will not hold fast to their sins.
But there are those who love their sin, sons of disobedience who cling to wicked ways. Upon these the judgment of God will fall. Among these are many who call themselves Christian, many who feel secure because they have named Christ as Saviour though they have not begun to serve him as Lord. We have this warning in Matthew 7:21-23: Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.
It does not matter what things you claim to have done for Christ. If you ignore his commands, you are not his. The New Testament has this continual expectation that the people of God will not act like people in the world. If you need more evidence, read Galatians 5:19-21 or Colossians 3:5-6 or 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 or 2 Peter 2:10-22 or Revelation 21:8, and the list could go on and on. These are not isolated verses of Scripture, minor texts that we can ignore while we continue in our sins. This is the resounding call of God: “My people will be holy!” And if we refuse to submit to his rule, we are not his people and we will face the fires of Hell.
I am not saying that your works save you. We are not saved by living holy lives. But if we are saved we will live holy lives. Not without sin, but it will be our pattern and our desire. We will not casually accept sin in our lives but we will fight and strive for holiness.
Paul gives us an answer to temptation. When you struggle with sin, what can you do to find victory? Remember the works of the Lord and your heart to him in thanksgiving. In verse 4 Paul says to us, let there be thanksgiving. The person who is filled with joy over the works of God is not at great risk of giving in to sin. When God is his delight, he finds pleasure in doing the things pleasing to God, and a righteous life is pleasing to God.
When your focus is on the things of the world, you will do the things of the world. When your focus is on God, you will do the things of God. Hear the instruction of Hebrews 12:1-2, Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
We have been saved from so much. Will we now return to the wasteland of sin? We have claimed so much! Will we by our actions turn our back on our claim? Will the people of God be the people of God and not the people of the world? Turn from your sin. Turn from every hint of sexual immorality or vulgar talk. Turn from celebrating the works of darkness. To ignore these things is to display a heart that is not regenerate, not transformed by the Holy Spirit, not covered by the grace of God. To cling to the world is to cling to your sin and when you stand before a holy God you will be held to pay for your own wickedness.
But there is forgiveness and restoration to those who come to Christ with humility and repentance. When you come to Christ you will not find a closed door but a welcoming Savior. Lay your sins at his feet, confess your wrongdoing to him, and turn to the path of righteousness. In this way sinners will be made saints and saints will be brought safely home.